Anonymous said: Okay so I'm talking to this guy and I really like him he says he likes me also. Well this past Thursday he told me he was leaving work to go to a baseball game with his homie and I was ok well hope you have a good time text me when it's over he was like ok I got you. He posted a pic on ig and I was ok cool then I come across his "ex" and she also posted a pic of that same baseball game also. he lied to me... Idk how to confront him about it cause he's gonna wonder how I know who his ex is. Help
Just bring it to his attention and say that you found out he lied. You have your sources, and that you can’t trust him at the moment. Take some time apart and think about what you’re willing to live with and what you’re not willing to live with, because I can tell you that it’s not fun having paranoia or trust issues. Talk to him about that. And either learn to trust that he won’t lie you again or stand up for yourself and leave if you don’t think you can handle it. A relationship without trust will fuck you up too.